I do apologize for my anxiety writing yesterday. After I wrote that JH came over for dinner and we discussed it all. We made the affirmation to keep our plan of not staying at this school, having a winter break and coming back to look for a new job at the end of January. Along with looking for a place to live together. To me that sounds more exciting and enriching than sticking it out at this job. From the sound of it looks like they are going to move on too.
As for putting the pressure on and getting an answer from them now I have cooled down. Might as well play their game since I have my own set of cards to deal. Plus I know they are busy with squaring the old and new teacher. Finally, I want to secure a good recommendation from this school which I have been working hard on creating.
A little birdie told me that it is dangerous to bring up the topic of "living together with your boyfriend" when negotiating a contract. Since the Principal could be conservative and think that living together before marriage is a sin and therefore see you as a bad seed. Certainly I felt some of this at my previous public school from the Principal, but just for dating a Korean man.
It reminded me that for my next job hunt I should be more sensitive with this issue if it comes up.
Anyways I feel more on my path this morning than I did yesterday. :)