Saturday, April 18, 2009

Eulogy to Love

BK and I broke up today.

For a while now we have been on the rocks. I don't wish to divulge the whole saga and private stuff.

We just were different people. Culturally and individually.

In the end I didn't fit into his scheme of things.

Our love for each other wasn't congruent either.

But if you are reading this and you happen to not be a robot, then you know what kind of heartbreak I am going through.

For sure I have learned something about myself, love, men and Korean culture.

So since this incident occurred my blogging may be infrequent for a while...sorry.


  1. Aw, I'm very sorry to hear that. I can commiseate. Be gentle with yourself.

  2. I'm sorry to hear it. The pain will pass, given time enough...

  3. So sorry to hear. Take care of yourself.

  4. Im sorry for what you are going thru. I stumbled across your blog a few months ago, we moved to Korea in December.

  5. I hope you're still getting enough sleep, and eating something each day.

    I KNOW how hard it is to go through a breakup. I had a 7 year relationship, and when that ended it was like losing half of my entire being . . .

    Take care,

  6. I'm so very sorry to hear that. You have an amazingly mature and rational perspective on the situation and I think that speaks volumes about the person that you are.

  7. Thanks everyone~
    I am trying to remain humane about this.

    But of course it is painful. sigh

  8. Hang in there, joy. You have friends, not far away. Keep them in mind: they'll be keeping you in theirs.

  9. Stay strong and take care of yourself!

  10. I'm sorry to read this. Stay strong.


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